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Post by dirtgirl on Mar 16, 2002 23:34:54 GMT 10
...And don't rub it in about how much more succesful you are with men. sparky - you're just being a meanie...  (or is that a Melanie?  ) |
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 17, 2002 14:50:37 GMT 10
successful?!  lets see - one turns gay, another barely speaks to me now and only about 6 people even know we ever dated even though we were together for over a year, and the other just moved to melbourne. yeah, successful is the word i would use to describe my relationships with the opposite sex.  |
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Post by Captain BJ on Mar 17, 2002 17:16:57 GMT 10
Well I know I can't talk...
I'm a victim of the 'friend' syndrome. ie. I am obviously too nice to girls and so they always worry that they are going to screw up a friendship (weak excuse as far as I'm concerned)... And I know it's not cause they never liked me like that because one of my best friends originally was attracted to me but we never were officially together.
And of the girlfriends I have had. One was someone I'd been after for four years... thought I finally had it made... but she decided she wasn't quite over her ex, and when she finally decided she was, she went for a guy who I wouldn't say was my worst enemy, but we didn't like each other. As it turns out, we've both matured and he's not a bad guy now, but still, I was gutted at the time. There's a much longer version of the story but I won't tell it because you might think there's more to me than unnecessary sexual innuendo and footy talk. And only the special ones can ever get through to me. 8)
And the others:
- nutcase who demanded every second of my thoughts
- unbelievably clingy, and paranoid because I wasn't the same. After one date.
- psycho pisshead from the wrong side of the tracks
Still, one was alright... just didn't work out. Just a shame it took 3 months to work it out.
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 17, 2002 18:47:03 GMT 10
something for kate fans: we are pretty, but pretty dumb when it comes to relationships. how many of us are single after all? sigh. |
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Post by somethingforkaty on Mar 17, 2002 22:44:07 GMT 10
im engaged  sorry, was that wrong of me to rub that in?  im just sooo happy is all |
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Post by dirtgirl on Mar 17, 2002 23:03:39 GMT 10
At least I'm doing my bit for the world's population, and environment Just isn't much fun that's all...  |
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 18, 2002 1:30:48 GMT 10
engaged? mymy. go katy! 8)
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Post by dirtgirl on Mar 18, 2002 14:43:38 GMT 10
Can i be maid of honour? ;D Personally I think anybody even contemplating signing their lives away before they are 30, and especially without a prenup are just nuts... Live in sin, it is much more cost effective in the long run... ;D |
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 18, 2002 15:09:04 GMT 10
before they are 30?! dood, i want to be married and have had all my kids (if i have any) by the time im 30. that actually happening is another story though. |
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Post by Captain BJ on Mar 18, 2002 16:32:35 GMT 10
I wouldn't even consider a prenup either. I don't have a problem with anyone else doing it but I wouldn't sign one because to me it's a sign that you're not confident it will work out, and my way of thinking is that if you don't think it will work then what the hell are you getting married for?
I'm also one of those who wants to be married by 30. No timetable for kids although I don't want to be one of those old dads... You know the Year 7 kid with the dad in his 50s?
If I was with the right person I wouldn't have a problem getting married today. I mean it'd be hard to organise, and I've got basketball tonight, but it could be done. ;D And assuming we're talking of the same person, the thought of kids doesn't scare me. Although it scares me to think of them with anyone else.
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 18, 2002 17:13:38 GMT 10
that why i want to have kids before im 30. my mum was 34 when she had me, and we cant relate at all anymore. its depressing. most of my friends parents have always been much younger too, and they seem like the coolest people. i dont want kids when im 20 (i dont think?) but i want to be done having them before im 30 at least. |
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Post by Captain BJ on Mar 18, 2002 17:43:34 GMT 10
How many kids and how long in between? You mightn't be leaving yourself much of a window of opportunity...
Still, we think the same... you say you're coming to Melbourne in May? ;D
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 18, 2002 17:53:49 GMT 10
i dont think i could deal with any more than 2 kids. and probably about 2 years apart. i say that now, but its not like i can plan it. who knows what could happen. haha. that i am. what area might you live in?  |
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Post by Captain BJ on Mar 18, 2002 18:06:29 GMT 10
Well I am moving to swanky Brighton (ok Brighton East, but it's still nice if not posh).
I suppose it's your decision how many kids you have, you're the one having to deal with the pain and all that.
I haven't decided... Definitely two or more though... And I'd want at least one of each.
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Post by singingcirclesaway on Mar 18, 2002 18:22:41 GMT 10
pst, i dont know where anything is. ive never even been to melbourne actually. oops. i do know that i will be most likely staying in preston, and maybe for a night or two in parkville in one of those college dorms thingos. and preston and parkville are 20 minutes apart. or so. and that concludes my entire knowledge of melbourne. d'oh. ;D so she has to keep popping them out until you get a boy and a girl? what happens if she is one of those girls that just keeps popping out the same sex? meanie. |
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(or is that a Melanie? 
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im just sooo happy is all 
